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Online Dating Conversation Tips

Last Update : April 1, 2016

You’re online dating profile is all filled in and you’re getting matches with lots of lovely ladies. But how do you start a conversation with them? And how do keep the conversation going?  Here’s our list of online dating conversation tips that will get you the date, every time.

Mention her profile

When you start speaking to a woman online, it’s wise to reference something she has mentioned in her profile. It shows her that you’ve taken the time to read her profile, but not only that, you were interested enough to remember what she wrote. This will show her that you’re not just attracted to her pictures but you’re actually interested in her as a person.

Keep it light hearted

The chat of an online dating website is not the place to have deep conversations or discuss the latest episode of Game of Thrones. It’s meant for flirting and creating a tension between you two. Keep the heavy getting to know you conversation topics for when you actually meet in person.

Ask Questions

Although it might seem that this point and our previous one are contradicting one another, they’re not. To keep a conversation going you’re going to have to ask her some questions. Make sure you keep them simple but also open ended so she can’t just reply with a simple “yes” or “no”. Everyone likes talking about themselves, so make sure you ask her questions about things she enjoys.

Get a Date

The ultimate goal of online dating is to get an actual date. So make sure your conversation is moving towards that goal and it doesn’t just turn into mundane chit chat. Make her laugh and get her interested through the chat, but don’t forget about the end goal.

Planning the Date

So now you’ve managed to chat to her and get her to agree to go on a date with you, how do you actually plan the first date. Well make sure in your previous conversations online, you were paying attention to what she likes to do. Pick an activity that you will both enjoy, don’t feel like you have to do something you hate just to impress her.

So there you have it, our tips on how to keep the conversation going when you’re chatting to a woman you met online. Use these tips and you’re sure to get an actual date with her.